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Sunday, June 06, 2010

Summer Pics


Veronika is a fantastic swimmer! I can't believe she will be 8 in just a few weeks!

My emotional/behavioral "Mini-Me."

Beautiful Baby Boy! He is his Daddy made over!

Watermelon Time! Bottom Pic (L to R): Jackson, Evie, Tucker, Phoenix, Veronika, Violet

Summertime...

Even though our day-to-day schedule doesn't change much between the school year and summer the atmosphere changes...we spend a large amount of our time in Mom and Dad's pool, Veronika is with us for a full week at a time and life in general just SLOOOOWS down. This was our first "real" weekend of summer and I feel like I need a break already! Seriously though, I am really looking foward to what this summer will bring because, quite frankly, I am just SO THANKFUL to not be pregnant this summer!

Saturday we had a family day and took Phoenix to his first movie, we saw Shrek Forever After 3-D.
It was a great movie and Veronika loved it. The babies did pretty good but it will be awhile before we try that again:)

I have a few goals for this summer:
1) SLEEP: Phoenix is doing great at night, he goes down easily around 9pm and wakes up to eat between 4:30 or 5:30am then sleeps until 7:30 or 8am. However, he is REALLY struggling at naptime. I know that if we keep working he will learn eventually!

2) POTTY: Violet is really into using the potty but because of the SLEEP issues above I have been hesitant to really get down to business. I am really expecting it to go smoothly because she has completely been initiating it. I am planning on going to panties in a couple of weeks but keeping her in diapers at naptime and nighttime.

3) READ: Veronika is an avid reader and I have always loved reading but since the babies came along that has definitely taken a back seat. I think reading fosters success in every area of life so I am hoping that Veronika and I can have some time set aside to read each day while the babies nap. Each summer we sign Veronika up for the Summer Reading Program at the Central Arkansas Library and she has already read ATLEAST 5 chapter books in the past three weeks plus she listens to books on CD at night. I hope Violet and Phoenix love to read as much as their big sissy!

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Our May In Pictures

May has flown by and with only 1 week left until June I thought I would share our month in pictures.


Phoenix wore himself out playing! He is 10 months old now and such a happy baby!


We played outside ALOT! A couple of hours during the day and all evening long!


Paula turned 30! We had a small surprise birthday party for her at Amanda's house.


Veronika graduated from AWANA Sparks and will be moving up to TNT next year. She received the Sparky Award for completing all 3 books. We are so proud of you Baby Girl!


Violet was in Pre-Cubbies and they performed at the Closing Ceremonies. Mom taught this class and Amanda, Paula, and I helped.

Friday, April 23, 2010

Our Beginning

Over on Kelly's Korner they are doing SUYL: How You Met Your Husband. I realized that not too many people know our "how we met story" and thought it might be interesting to share.
Steve and Veronika briefly visited the Little Rock Missionary Baptist Student Fellowship (MBSF) in the Fall of 2003. Sometime in the next month or two I started visiting/regularly attending the same MBSF...but we never crossed paths. In the Spring of 2005 I started student teaching at David O. Dodd Elementary, just a few miles from the Missionary Baptist Seminary on Stagecoach Road. A father that attended the seminary and attended Marlow MBC mentioned that he thought I should meet a friend of his, a divorced guy with a little girl...but nothing ever came of it. In January of 2006 I joined Match.com and ran across a guy and "winked" at him. I don't necessarily remember what first caught my eye but I do remember what caught my attention. He (Steve) said that he had been a preacher but was divorced and the churches of his denomination didn't allow divorced men to be preachers. "How odd," I thought. Missionary Baptists are about the only denomination that teach that and it was not a common thing to run into a Missionary Baptist guy just by chance. We continued talking by email and phone for a week or two, then on March 3, 2006 we had our first face-to-face date. We didn't date long, we were married on November 17, 2006. Looking back we would've dated a little longer, but with all we have been through I truly believe that he is the one that God was preparing for me...we just had to wait on HIS timing.
Spring 2006
Spring 2010

Monday, April 12, 2010

Happy 2nd Birthday Baby Girl!

Violet's 2nd Birthday is this Wednesday, April 14. We have a crazy week ahead of us so I am posting this a little early...
You and Sissy on the night you were born 4/14/08

You are a true Daddy's girl 4/11/10
To My Sweet Baby Violet,

Two years ago my world changed…YOU changed my world! After 30 hours of labor and 2 more hours of pushing I heard Aunt Paula say, “Look down and see your baby.” That moment changed everything, there was life before you and there is life with you. Loving you taught me what true unconditional love is. Loving you allowed me to love Veronika as my own…something I never really knew how to do before you. Loving you taught me to love your Daddy more; there is not a Daddy in the world who is more devoted, involved, and in love with his children. Loving you taught me to love God and Jesus more, I now realize what a sacrifice it was for God to send His precious Jesus into our world to die for our sins. Loving you taught me to love others, everyone means the world to somebody.

There was only one big change in our lives this past year…we welcomed Phoenix into our family! Nothing brings me more joy than listening to you, Phoenix (Bubba or Buddy), and Veronika (Sissy or Ka-Ka) laughing and playing together.

God has given me everything I ever prayed for and more in your Daddy, Veronika, you and Phoenix. There will come a day in your life when you will know what you mean to me…someday, when you are holding your precious new baby…then you will know just how much I love you!

Love,
Mommy
Today you are 2! You wear 2T Clothes and size 6 Shoes. You are not potty-trained and I don’t think you will be for awhile. You act like you want to use the potty but refuse to sit on it…you want it on your terms. You don’t like messes or being dirty and you pick up toys that your brother is still playing with…you are a lot like your mommy! You are a real Daddy’s girl, when you wake up in the morning you ask me, “Daddy work? Daddy money?” because we tell you that Daddy has to go to work to make money so we can have food, clothes, and toys. You are a little momma and you are very thoughtful and loving, but you can also be a bit of a bully. You love your pacifier and we just don’t have the heart to make you give it up yet. You sleep with your baby and two crochet blankets. Every night you listen to your Disney Lullaby CD and watch your Ocean “show” while you go to sleep. You sleep for 11 or 12 hours at night and take a 2 hour nap every day. Your favorite foods are String Cheese, Cutie Oranges, and Pop-Tarts. You love to watch Sesame Street and Barney and you LOVE playing outside.
Evie is your best friend, you two fight like you are sisters but love each other like it too. Your other friends are Rylie, Lily, Abby and Tinsley. You love playing with your sister, brother, Jackson and Tucker and Evie! You change everyday and you never cease to amaze me. I can’t wait to see what your 3rd year brings!

Saturday, April 10, 2010

No Training Wheels!

Aunt Paula had the great idea of teaching Jackson to ride without training wheels by starting on a smaller bike, so...after just a few tries Veronika was off!

Violet's 2nd Birthday Party

Today we celebrated Violet Anne's 2nd Birthday! It is hard to believe that this Wednesday will be two years since this little girl entered our world. I can't really imagine life before her but I can't believe how fast the past two years have flown by. We celebrated with a birthday at The WonderPlace, one of Violet's favorite places to play. We all had a blast playing in the play area, playing with play-doh, and eating cupcakes!
Violet recieved this trampoline enclosure from Poppa and Dodi.

My 2 Year Old Birthday Girl!
 



Party Time!
Phoenix is our little waterbug!


Evie

The "Big Kids" Table: Graci, Veronika, Emma and Jackson

The "Baby" Table: Violet, Tucker, Evie, Lily and Abby

Jackson

Tucker and Puppy

My Big Boy

Thursday, April 08, 2010

Our Easter

Easter 2010 was a little unusual for us...the Wednesday before Easter Violet came down with a stomach virus, Friday morning Phoenix woke up with fever and an ear infection. Saturday seemed normal until I came down with the dreaded stomach bug Saturday evening. This was the first Easter that I every remember not being in church, we spent the day just relaxing and recouping from a week of blah. Thankfully we were able to celebrate with my family the previous Friday with dinner and an Easter Egg Hunt. Sadly, my children have not been able to be photographed in their beautiful new Easter outfits yet so look for those next week as well as pictures from Violet's 2nd Birthday Party!!











Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Under Construction

I am playing around with my blog! Please excuse all the changes!

Sunday, March 07, 2010

Spotlight on Veronika

Veronika has always really done well in school but this year, 2nd Grade, she has REALLY blossomed! She is an especially talented artist and writer. The first picture is a free-draw that she did in art class. The second is based on the Eric Carle book, "A House for Hermit Crab."




What follows is a writing that she did last week on her favorite place to eat:

My family's favorite place to go is Lary's Pizza. It is a pizza buffet place. I eat all kind's of pizza. And they have dessert pizza too. After we get done eating we get some dollars put them in the token machine and we play all kinds of games. And after were done playing any games we get tickets. After where done playing games we go too the prize tabile and they count how many tickets we got then we get to pick out some prizes. then we leave. I say thank you to the people who made the pizza. then we leave. If you ever want to go. It is in east end.
THE END!

A Busy Spring Weekend

Friday evening we did our grocery trip to Wal-Mart and let Violet pick out a toddler potty seat. She can tell us when she needs to potty but doesn't like to sit on it because she is afraid of falling. We thought the potty seat would help, but she found other uses for it...(this is unused by the way)






It is hard to believe that Phoenix will be 8 months on March 17th! He is such a sweet, cuddly boy!






We spent all day Saturday outside. Steve was taking some limbs and decided that he could take down one of our pine trees. He took it down yesterday and had a nice fire Sunday afternoon. The one that is left is too tall so we will have to have that removed by professionals!


Look at my baby girl climbing all by herself!


Phoenix has outgrown his baby carrier so we are switching him to a toddler car-seat and will leave it rear-facing. I ordered coordinating car-seat covers from a vendor on http://www.etsy.com/
I am very pleased with the end result.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Top Baby Products

My friend Becky is expecting her baby this summer and recently asked Randi and I which baby products were absolute must haves. I have been thinking about it this week and compiled my favorite things. Please share your "must-haves" for those precious baby days!

1. Boppy Nursing Pillow: This made feedings so much easier than they would have been. I took it with me everywhere during those early nursing days and it provides support if you are bottle feeding. I considered giving mine away but now Violet sleeps with it.

2. A Good Rocker/Recliner: We bought a La-Z-Boy recliner when we were expecting Violet and it was well worth the investment. Steve and I both have spent countless hours in that chair rocking, reading, sleeping, etc. It is so comfortable and the fabric has really worn well.

3. Baby Bjorn/Sling/Etc.

4. Swaddle Blanket: My Favorite http://www.swaddledesigns.com/

5. Lanolin Nipple Cream: I don't particularly have a brand preference but this was a life saver in those early nursing days!

6. Triple Paste Diaper Rash Ointment: Paula gave this to me as a gift when I was pregnant with Violet. Best Diaper Rash Ointment hands down!
7. Infant Tylenol: Teething can start ALOT earlier than you think. Tylenol has given mommy, daddy, and baby relief on many a sleepless night in our household!

8. Burp Cloths: Violet was a spitter and Phoenix is a drooler...Burp Clothes are not optional!

9. Portable Changing Pad

10. Head Support for CarSeat

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Valentine's Pictures


Father-Daughter Dance Saturday, February 6, 2010


Veronika with her little sister Kalyssa
Veronika, her friend Autumn, and Kalyssa
They were introduced as Princess Veronika escorted by her Dad Steve.
Veronika's Class Party
Violet ate her own ice cream, half of Veronika's and then some more! She kept trying to go to the other kids' desks and eat theirs also!
Veronika is an awesome big sissy! She always shares her goodies!

My Valentine's Surprise!

Valentine's Day

I have always loved Valentine's Day, I think it is such a fun celebration. Even when I didn't have a Valentine of my own I loved curling up with some chocolate, Diet Coke and a sappy romantic movie. These days I have not one but 4 Valentines! Our Valentine's Celebrations started last Saturday. Veronika had a Father-Daughter Dance at her school and she and Steve were able to go. Veronika's mom dressed her up beautifully-I can't believe how big she is getting! We bought her a corsage and Steve even put on his suit! Sunday night Steve and I had out Valentine's date. We ate at Macaroni Grill and saw Dear John...I am SO lucky that Steve will see girly movies with me:) Friday was Veronika's Valentine's Class party and Violet and I were able to go while Phoenix stayed with Dodi for a couple of hours. Veronika loved showing Violet off to her friends and Violet LOVED the attention. Saturday morning I woke up to some beautiful flowers-what a sweet suprise!

Friday, February 12, 2010

Read to Me

My friend Randi did a post on her blog about books and it got me thinking about the books in our house. I remember being read to...ALOT! I don't remember all of them but to this day I can pick up a book and it will stir up a childhood memory; laying in bed listening to my dad read-he always smelled clean, like shaving cream, toothpaste and soap, going to the library and listening to story time, remembering how much I loved to check-out books at the library-I always wanted to open each book and put a return card in it. The first book I remember reading was "Rub-a-Dub Suds", I got to read it to my kindergarten class. My best friend Calley was jealous so she had her mom read it to her until she memorized it and she "read" it to the class as well! I hope she eventually learned to read for real...she is now a Homeschooling Momma to 3 precious boys!
My parents never had to "make" me go to bed, I couldn't wait to get in bed so I could read. I remember having a stack of chapter books by my bed and I would read a chapter or two each night out of each of them. I remember in 3rd grade we had indoor recess one day, the class was rowdy but I was immersed in a book. Ms. Armstrong asked me how I could concentrate and I didn't know how to answer-I was in a different world-I could read for hours at a time.
One of my motivations for becoming a teacher was my love for reading-it was the most amazing thing to me to see my students learn to read! Through my college years I invested a small fortune in Children's Literature. I had so many books in my classroom that I had to rotate them-I didn't have enough room in my library for all of them! I have a collection of books for each holiday-right down to Groundhog Day and Martin Luther King Day! When I decided to stay home I was so grateful that I had bought most of my books with personal money so that I could bring them home for my children. We have them EVERYWHERE! I even have a bucket of books in the van for the kids to read.
So, with all of that said, here are just a few of my favorite childhood books.

1. Don't Call Me Fatso- I was overweight even as a child and my mom bought this, I think to give me self-confidence, but maybe to let me know I was a Fatso. (JOKING)

2. When The New Baby Comes, I'm Moving Out- I got this when Mom was pregnant with Amanda, I loved the part where he was going to put his mom and baby in the trash can-I thought that sounded like a great idea. I read this to the girls when I was pregnant with Phoenix...Violet was uninterested and Veronika thought the boy was very mean.

3. Where The Wild Things Are- How can you not love this book? Who hasn't wanted to escape and be king of the Wild Things?

4. Philadelphia Chickens- This is a book/cd combo. The girls LOVE it! We get really crazy in the car and rock out to all of the silly songs.

5. The Dumb Bunnies- This book is hysterical! You MUST check it out.

6. The Going To Bed Book/Yoo Hoo, Little Rabbit- I combine these two into one because they are special for the same reason. I am not sure where these books came from or how it happened, but these are Violet's "night-night" books. They do not go on the bookshelf, they have a special place of honor next to the CD player so they are easily found everynight at bed time.

7. Someday- My friend Randi introduced me to this book. I cry EVERY TIME I READ IT! I look at it and think, "I know what is in you, you can't get to me this time. I will read you and not cry." I do ok for a few pages, and then my throat tightens up, and my eyes start to get wet, and then I give up and sob. I DO NOT read this book in front of anyone over the age of 2...I am embarrassed-but at the same time I want my children to always remember the message of this book.

8. I'm Gonna Like Me- One of my most important goals as a parent is to instill self-confidence in my children. In a world where we are bombarded with messages of what we "should" be I want them to love and like themselves no matter what.

9. Eric Carle books- I count this as one because there is not one of his books that I don't like. His illustrations are beautiful and his books hook children and adults alike.

10. On the Night You Were Born- Another confidence builder with sweet, soft words and beautiful illustrations.

11. Without You- A little Spann boy bought this for me at the book fair when I was teaching. I was very pregnant with Violet and cried as I read it to my class. "Where would I be? What would I do? Who in this world would see me through? Where would I be? What would I do? Without you"

Thursday, February 04, 2010

Simple Pleasures

My sister-in-law Paula did a "Simple Pleasures" list that she had seen on Kelly's Korner...so I thought I would follow suite. In random order:

1. Waking up and seeing Phoenix sleeping so peacefully beside me.

2. BOTH babies sleeping late and/or taking a nap at the same time.

3. NAP TIME...wow, I am starting to see a trend here, you would think I like sleep or something!


4. Long, Hot Showers...even when Violet pops her head in to say hello

5. Diet Coke

6. Phone calls from Steve...he usually calls me at break, lunch and on his way home. My favorite one is 5pm telling me he is leaving work!

7. Pedicures

8. Having time to shave my legs AND mosturize.

9. Watching Violet fall asleep.

10. Competing with Veronika to see who can sing "John Jacob Jingleheimer" or "I Am A C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N" the fastest.

11. Family movie nights

12. Sunday lunch at Mom and Dad's house

13. Seeing Violet's face when we pick Veronika up or when she walks through the door

14. Opening Violet's door in the morning to get her out of bed

15. Girl's Night

16. Having a clean house

17. Laughing hysterically and not being able to stop

18. Rocking Phoenix to sleep

19. Date Night

20. Gardening

21. Making a budget and organizing our bills

22. Getting my hair done. Not only do I enjoy the actual process but I am ALONE for 45 minutes!

23. Family Game Night

24. Staying up till all hours of the night with my mom, sisters, aunt, cousins...

25. Candlelight